Inspired by the song Say Something by A Great Big World & Christina Aguilera
Inspired by the song Say Something by A Great Big World & Christina Aguilera
NO. 101 Slip sweet notes in her locker. They will make her day.
NO. 102 Never let a day pass without saying ‘I love you’ to her.
NO. 103 Always protect her from any kind of harm.
NO. 104 Never give her a reason to think she’s the man in the relationship.
NO. 105 Grand gestures.
NO. 106 Kiss her under the stars.
NO. 107 Love her unconditionally.
NO. 108 Make her an album of the songs that reminds you of her.
NO. 109 Never lead her on if you know nothing’s going to happen.
NO. 110 Never answer “Does this make me look fat?” question.
NO. 111 If you love her, never let her slip away.
NO. 112 Your warmth soothes her heart.
NO. 113 When going out, don’t ask her what she wants to do, take charge and decide.
NO. 114 Smile and laugh at her jokes, even if they aren’t funny.
NO. 115 If you don’t have time for her, make time for her.
NO. 116 Always be available for her.
NO. 117 If you love her, tell her before it’s too late.
NO. 118 Never forget an anniversary.
NO. 119 When you’re around her, always make her feel like you’re her first and last.
NO. 120 It’s the little compliments that means a lot to her.
NO. 121 Show her off in front of your or her friends.
NO. 122 When she’s tired, carry her.
NO. 123 Never accuse.
NO. 124 Do it because you want to, not because you want something back in return.
NO. 125 Actions speak louder than words.
NO. 126 Have those I-love-you-more-fights….she thinks it’s cute.
NO. 127 Don’t say “whatever” when you are arguing…..it’ll make her more mad.
NO. 128 Never blame her for your mistake.
NO. 129 She loves that cute smirk. Promise.
NO. 130 A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone’s feelings unintentionally.
NO. 131 No more bro’s before ho’s. Well respected women, before bro’s.
NO. 132 Don’t go anywhere without kissing her goodbye.
NO. 133 Hold the door for every girl, attractive or not.
NO. 134 Try to write a song for her, even if you’re not musically incline….she’ll love it no matter what.
NO. 135 Text her good morning to have her day start with a smile.
NO. 136 She comes first. Always.
NO. 137 Never let her forget how much she means to you.
NO. 138 Never let her fall asleep waiting for your call.
NO. 139 Her “nothing” is always something.
NO. 140 Never tell a girl she doesn’t understand. Ever. Chances are she does.
NO. 141 Forehead kisses.
NO. 142 Have a day for just you and her, she loves the one on one time.
NO. 143 Have tickle fights with her….but let her win.
NO. 144 Dance with her even when there’s no music on.
NO. 145 Stay up, even if you are tired to talk or chat with her.
NO. 146 Never give her a reason to doubt your feelings for her.
NO. 147 Never reject her kisses or hugs.
NO. 148 Don’t text or call her just because you’re bored.
NO. 149 Kiss her spontaneously in the middle of her sentence.
NO. 150 Love her for who she is, not for who you want her to be.
NO. 151 When she pushes you away, pull her in closer.
NO. 152 Call her love. It sounds classy.
NO. 153 Tuck her hair behind her ear.
NO. 154 Never compare her with your ex-girlfriend. She is incomparable.
NO. 155 Never underestimate a girl’s ability to find things out.
NO. 156 If you fall in love with her, tell her. Just be prepared to catch her.
NO. 157 In the middle of a hug, squeeze a little harder….she’ll love it, promise.
NO. 158 A gentleman always cheers for his hometown team. Win or lose.
NO. 159 A gentleman respects every women in his life. If you can’t respect your own mother forget about respecting your girlfriend.
NO. 160 Stupid lame jokes.
NO. 161 Awkwardly adorable moments.
NO. 162 A gentleman always thinks before he says.
NO. 163 A gentleman is never rude.
NO. 164 A gentleman never breaks a promise.
NO. 165 Don’t try to outdress a woman. She should be the center of attention and should not feel that she’s underdressed.
NO. 166 A gentleman always dresses well.
NO. 167 Don’t just talk the talk.
NO. 168 Look people in the eyes when you greet them and shake their hand.
NO. 169 Never cut someone off.
NO. 170 If you’re trying to have a relationship let the woman know. If you’re not, let them know that too.
NO. 171 Open doors. Pull out chairs. Simple manners.
NO. 172 No, she doesn’t look fat in that dress. Yes, even if she does.
NO. 173 Give girls a little extra respect.
NO. 174 Secret rooftop meetings never get old.
NO. 175 Calling her “baby” will make her melt every time. Promise.
NO. 176 When listening to the radio, if a love song comes on, squeeze her hand tighter.
NO. 177 Your girlfriend is not the prettiest of them all, because in your eyes, she should be the only one who is pretty.
NO. 178 Confidence is sexy. Cockiness is not.
NO. 179 Hold her while she cries, nothing feels better.
NO. 180 When hugging her, lift her off her feet and spin around….she’ll love it.
NO. 181 Always maintain eye contact. It lets her know that you are only paying attention to her.
NO. 182 If you make her bite her lip, know that you’re doing a good job at whatever you’re doing.
NO. 183 Hold her tight, she won’t want you to let go.
NO. 184 Make holding her hand too tight the only way you can hurt her.
NO. 185 Kisses aren’t everything; never underestimate the power of a good hug.
NO. 186 Play with her fingers, she loves the way your hand touches hers.
NO. 187 Grand gestures and complimenting the little things aren’t opposites. Do both.
NO. 188 Don’t tell her your love is forever unless you have no doubt it is.
NO. 189 Tell her all your sweet memories together. She’ll be smiling all day long knowing that you remember every single moment you’re together.
NO. 190 If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy enough. –Bob M.
NO. 191 A man’s biggest mistake is giving another man an opportunity to make his woman smile. If you love her, you shouldn’t be giving any guy that chance. It should be you making her smile.
NO. 192 Every gentleman should have at least one suit in his closet.
NO. 193 Good looks is just a bonus if you have a great personality.
NO. 194 If a girl admits that she likes you, know that it took every ounce of courage in her to say that. Idiot, don’t take her for granted.
NO. 195 A gentleman should always have one good watch on his wrist. It’s a mark of character and dignity.
NO. 196 Gentlemen, wear a belt. It’s called underwear for a reason.
NO. 197 Let her order first.
NO. 198 Being open-minded and aware of the world around you shows class and sophistication, but avoid seeming pretentious by being modest instead of showing off what you know.
NO. 199 Don’t ask about the last guy she was with. Being competitive is a young man’s game.
NO. 200 Avoid public fights with your woman. Keep things private to let her know there’s an exclusive world that you and her share.
NO. 1 Run with her on the beach.
NO. 2 Give her your sweater when she’s cold.
NO. 3 Never talk about other girls in front of her.
NO. 4 Learn to play the guitar for her.
NO. 5 Comfort her when she’s scared.
NO. 6 Watch the sunset with her.
NO. 7 If she can’t sleep, read her a bedtime story.
NO. 8 If you get in a fight with her and she starts to cry, just stop and hold her.
NO. 9 Never force her to do anything.
NO. 10 Call her beautiful, especial when she least expects it.
NO. 11 Never let her walk home alone.
NO. 12 Play with her hair when she’s laying on your chest.
NO. 13 Always make the first move.
NO. 14 Never lie to her, she’ll find out.
NO. 15 Kiss her when she’s sleeping.
NO. 16 Sing to her no matter how terrible your voice is.
NO. 17 When she’s fighting with someone defend her even when you don’t think she’s right.
NO. 18 Accept her for who she is.
NO. 19 Call her beautiful instead of hot or sexy.
NO. 20 Don’t let go first during a hug.
NO. 21 Tell her if she has something in her hair.
NO. 22 Tell her you love her before she sleeps every night.
NO. 23 Never go through her messages.
NO. 24 Making her look bad in front of your friends will make you look bad, too.
NO. 25 Always have her back.
NO. 26 Kiss her in the rain.
NO. 27 Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
NO. 28 Stay on the call with her even if she fell asleep.
NO. 29 Let her fall asleep in your arms.
NO. 30 Give her piggyback rides.
NO. 31 Call her babe.
NO. 32 Apologize when you’re wrong.
NO. 33 Always open the door for her.
NO. 34 Boobs or butts doesn’t matter.
NO. 35 Notice the little things.
NO. 36 Give her flowers.
NO. 37 Good hygiene is a must.
NO. 38 Be confident.
NO. 39 Don’t swear.
NO. 40 Carry things for her.
NO. 41 Always be the stronger one.
NO. 42 Pay for dinner.
NO. 43 Hold her chair.
NO. 44 Be a good listener.
NO. 45 Don’t brag.
NO. 46 Compliment her.
NO. 47 Don’t use her.
NO. 48 Respect her.
NO. 49 Perform random acts of kindness.
NO. 50 Never take her for granted.
NO. 51 Give her breakfast in bed.
NO. 52 Hang out with her friends too, not just yours.
NO. 53 Do whatever it takes to make her happy.
NO. 54 She’s more important than videogames.
NO. 55 Don’t make a promise if you’re going to break it.
NO. 56 If she slaps you, you probably deserved it.
NO. 57 Should have three things from you, your sweatshirt, a stuffed animal, and a really pretty ring.
NO. 58 Never slap her, even if it’s just in a joking way.
NO. 59 If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.
NO. 60 Forget her birthday once and you’re screwed.
NO. 61 Hug her from the back.
NO. 62 Never insult her, even if you’re joking around.
NO. 63 Never miss a date.
NO. 64 Try your best to get her something on your vacation.
NO. 65 Wear that knitted sweater that she made for you.
NO. 66 Never ask her to buy you things.
NO. 67 If you love her, show her, not your friends.
NO. 68 Don’t get upset if she wants to watch chick flicks.
NO. 69 When she’s sick, don’t neglect her.
NO. 70 Reply to her texts.
NO. 71 Never ask a girl out because of a dare.
NO. 72 Never be late for a date.
NO. 73 Unexpected surprises.
NO. 74 When both of you are in a fight, take the blame even if she’s wrong.
NO. 75 Listen to what she has to say.
NO. 76 You know she loves you, don’t play with her emotions and take advantage of it.
NO. 77 When she refuses to talk to you because you did something to upset her, insist and make up for it.
NO. 78 Make her feel like a princess.
NO. 79 Shift to the dangerous side when crossing the street.
NO. 80 When she drops something, stop what you’re doing to help her.
NO. 81 Never let her down or blow her off.
NO. 82 Treat her like your bestfriend.
NO. 83 Kiss the back of her hand.
NO. 84 Love her when she least deserves it. That’s when she needs it the most.
NO. 85 Tell her your stories and feelings too. She wants to hear them. Promise.
NO. 86 Don’t tell her lies just to spare her feelings, she’d rather know the truth now rather than finding out later.
NO. 87 “I’m cold” is another way of saying “hug me”.
NO. 88 Believe her and believe in her.
NO. 89 Always listen to what she has to say.
NO. 90 Good grammar is sexy.
NO. 91 Look her in the eyes.
NO. 92 Let her rest her head on your shoulder.
NO. 93 Take the initiative to go and talk to her.
NO. 94 Have pillow fights with her, but don’t beat her senseless.
NO. 95 Never talk bad behind her back.
NO. 96 Never be a jerk to her in front of her friends.
NO. 97 Never go to parties or hang out with other girls without her.
NO. 98 Never make excuses.
NO. 99 Don’t talk to her when you’re mad, you will screw something up.
NO. 100 Don’t try to keep anything from her.
The funny thing is, no one ever tries hard enough to fight for me. Usually I’m the one doing the fighting. I’m the one putting in effort and trying to save something that might not even be there to begin with. Countless of times people just give up halfway. Why? Is it because of me? Was I not enough? These questions roaming free in the back of my mind. Over and over again, the same routine, the same situation that keeps coming back and resurfacing. Yet even with the amount of times it reoccurs, I still hold no answer.
You know what? Yes, I have changed. I’m not as nice as I used to be, because I don’t want to get used or walked over. I don’t trust everyone and tell them my secrets, because behind every fake smile is a backstabbing jerk. I distance myself from people because in the end, they’re only going to leave. I have changed because I have realized that I’m the only person I can depend on.
At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It’s not like you’re giving up, and it’s not like you shouldn’t try. It’s just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.